I got my ex wife pregnant and my new girl friend is pregnant need advice?

Should I tell my girl friend that I got my ex wife pregnant or leave it alone? My ex wife says she won't tell besides she is very well off.I got my ex wife pregnant and my new girl friend is pregnant need advice?
Advice?





Wrap it up in the future!I got my ex wife pregnant and my new girl friend is pregnant need advice?
Call both of them immediately and confess your ';weak character';, beg your girlfriend to forgive you and to still allow you to be a part of your childs life.





If you want any chance of a future with your girlfriend you must begin practicing ';full-disclosure'; and complete transparency. Don't allow your ex wife to hold such power of you and your girlfriend, do you really want to carry around such a burden?





You may want to wait until your girlfriend actually has the baby, this will probably destroy her. You have ruined your girlfriend. Do you understand what I'm saying? She will be so angry and broken-hearted.





The consequences of cheating in your case are impossible to even quantify, for your girlfriend it means she can never look at you the same, never trust you again, never ever.





You should consider a Vasectomy.
You need to tell her then get another job . You are going to need it to support these kids .


I don't care if your ex wife is well off . Hell she could be Donald Trumps daughter and it wouldn't matter . You helped to create these children and you need to help care for them until the age of 18 .


You also need to either start using condoms , get neutered , or keep it in your pants . There are too many children in this world as it is that are with out fathers , you do not need to add to the list .
HA HA HA! Is this a joke? If it's not then your in a mess. If you slept with you ex wife before you got together with your girlfriend, then tell your girl. If not, I don't know what you should do. She would probably leave you. But you can't deny either children so, I'd say tell her and be there for both women and the children.
You should probably come clean with all. If you want something long term with the girl friend, it would be better to come out now from you. God forbid you piss off your ex wife and now she has something on you. Divorce should be celebrated by enjoying the best part....not having the other have control. Besides your one kid should have the right to know his or her sister/brother (half)
First advice--get a vasectomy! After that, tell your girlfriend. You


know she will find out anyway, kind of hard to keep a baby a


secret, unless you decide to NOT be a part of its' life. If


that's the case, she needs to know that you are not the kind


of guy who stands by his children or the mother of his children,


so she can see what kind of guy you REALLY are.
Well first things first you need to go to your local sperm bank and make a donation because you have some strong stuff! That way those women that want to be mothers but their husband's sperm count too low etc can have the joy of raising a baby.


LOL tell the new girlfriend you got her pregnant, just in passing like during a commerical on tv or something. It's not that big of a deal, she should understand.
People...you don't have to agree with someone to give them advice. Now, to the asker I would say that I don't agree with your choices but I don't know you so what is my opinion mean. I will say this though, I think in order to have a clear conscious you should talk to your girlfriend. Just be honest with her. You'll feel alot better, you won't have to look over your shoulder wondering when she'll find out. So just spill. You were man enough to get both pregnant, let her know. Good Luck
you need to fess up. your going to have kids the same age. they need to know they have a sibling from the get go or they will be hurt if they find each other later in life. i found out i had siblings i never knew about through the internet and it felt like everyone in my family stabbed me in the back by covering up this part of my life.
honestly. she deserves to know the truth.





BUT i think you should wait until she has given birth. upsetting a woman that is pregnant can be dangerous.





after she has had the baby. you should tell her what you have done.





and then... she gets to decide to put up with you or dump you.


if she decides to stay with you she will need years to ever believe you again.





and what you did is horrible....do not make anymore selfish decisions.
1st. Tell your girlfriend about your ex-wife and tell your ex-wife about your girlfriend.





2nd. Keep it in your pants. If you can't keep it in your pants then either learn to use a condom properly or go to the doctors and get a vasectomy.





3rd.Be a part of both of those babies' lives because they are Both your kids.
Keep that pickle in your pants. Who knows how many children you have out there? You are just like my sisters baby's daddy. She found out he had two other children one with his wife, a girlfriend and now my sisters 4-year-old girl. She left him and he still would like her back. She said no you are married so he went back to the other girlfriend. My sister is the only one who gets child support-and that is only if he is working they garnish his checks for the support money. Its is vary sad ';mommy why can't I get this?''...because baby your dead beat father can not help us he quit his job.
I believe you should disclose the information however you committing the behvior of cheating and lying is enough for others to get an idea of what type of person you are. Not to be trusted and definately not faithful. I proberly do not have to ask why your first marriage broke up.
It will all have to come out in the open someday, so you should tell her now instead of waiting.. the babies afterall will be half-siblings!! I think your girlfriend deserves to know the truth.





And PLEASE do yourself a favour and learn to keep it in your pants! Or at least wrap it up!
My advice is for you to be honest with your GF.





Also stop sleeping with both women and decide who you want to be with.





Don't you want all of your children to know each other and be able to play and grow up with one another?





You are still a little boy in my opinion...GROW UP
i think in the future if youre gonna tap it you better wrap it...


yea i think you should go ahead and let your girlfriend know that her child is gonna have a half brother or sister....its gonna come out sometime..


might just as well b honest with her and let her know that you cheated on her...
you're on a very difficult situation. even if your ex doesn't require you to take care or pay for anything, it'll still be your child. and your current girlfriend will find out one day. so it's one situation, that the sooner you speak the better.
You need to sit down and tell your girlfriend what happened as it will all come out eventually.......You owe her that much......maybe you can salvage the relationship with your girlfriend but tell her....Be worse if she just hears it.....Act more responsible next time and use protection.........
WoW!!! what a mess!!! i think you should try to keep it in your pants. thats what happens when you mess around!!!! i have no advice except that you just need to suck it up and learn from your mistakes. take care of your responsibilities.
Get yourself down to the Vet and get yourself fixed.





What sort of relationship will it be if it starts with lies?





Your ex-wife will have you by the cajones for the rest of your life - just cut them off to protect yourself.
Does the word ';Vascetomy'; Mean anything to you? What do you think Condoms are made for? do you think that are made to be blown up like toy balloons? the only advise i can give you is get your head out of your @ss
You are about to have 2 kids. Act like it. Own up and be a father to both of them. Just because she is well off doesnt mean you should be off the hook.





Keep your fly zipped man.
Your girlfriend WILL find out eventually so don't hide it from her because she'll just get more upset with you the longer you wait. Sounds to me like you're going to have a lot of explaining to do.
Don't worry about telling - it's all going to come out eventually. Believe it or not - someone will slip, get hormonal and tell - I could go on and on...you are so screwed and you did it to yourself.
Don't you hate when that happens!!!





the right thing would be to be honest with your girlfriend.





the thing you should do is make sure your a good father no matter


what happens...





and learn from this......WRAP IT UP!!!!
your gf deserves to know that her unborn child will have a sibling. she should also know that you are a disgusting horn dog that can't or won't decide between his past and his future.
seriously keep the dog in the kennel n i would suggest abortion or have another child, but try not to leave them %26amp; look fter them and try not to do the same thing again gud luck
I don't mean to be rude but the first thing I thought of was Maury. LOL





In all seriousness though, I think you should let your girlfriend know because you're going to be in your child's life (from your ex), right?
My advice to you is get a vasectomy or start using condoms. You are in a mess right now you might as well come clean to both of them.
The worst thing you can do is not tell your wife. If u love her, u have to tell her....TAKE MI ADVICE
Yeah you need to tell your girlfriend you moron!! What the heck are you doing sleeping with your ex-wife when you have a girlfriend you pig!